According to the Oxford dictionary, voyeurism is the practice of gaining sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in a sexual activity. The term voyeurism is derived from the French word 'voir' which means 'to see'. Many of us have gained 'a thrill' via accidental voyeurism.
How I Went From Burned-Out Actress, to HuffPost Freelancer, to Full-Time Maxim Sex Columnist! by Vanessa de Largie
I'm a trained actress. I never intended to be an author, journalist, or sex-columnist. It happened by default. In 2011, after a decade of back-to-back acting gigs, I had a nervous breakdown. It was so severe that the mere mention of acting triggered a debilitating emotional response.
May is the one month of the year where you're actually encouraged to beat the proverbial meat.
A sex-blogger's review of Girlvert
When I'm not on my knees. I'm on all fours. Doggie-style is my favorite sexual position. It's the one I derive the most pleasure from. Many women enjoy cowgirl. The 'cowgirl position' gives the female more control and helps her to dictate pace and movement.
My favorite thing about threesomes is the double blowjob. There's something erotic about sharing a dick with another woman. I get incredibly wet watching her work on the same penis as me - it's like collaborative art. My first experience of a double blowjob was memorable.
Sex robots get a bad rap. They've been labelled unethical and blamed for perpetuating a culture that objectifies women. Some are concerned that their lifelike appearance and fully functioning genitals pose a threat to romantic love and human relationships. But sex robots are here to stay.
Vanessa de Largie likes to express herself sexually through writing, film, photography and art.
We've known for a while now that clean-cut Richie Strahan is Australia's newest Bachelor, and it has just been announced that TV news anchor Georgia Love will be our newest Bachelorette. Once again women around the country will be drip-fed the romance-lie via soft lighting, unauthentic dates and red roses.
Content warning: this article discusses rape, trauma, and ways of healing. n April, I had the immense privilege of performing my one-woman-show Every Orgasm I Have Is A Show Of Defiance To My Rapist in the West End of London. I've also written a column of the same name detailing how I sexually healed from rape.
I crave them, pursue them, slay them and discard them. Unapologetic sexual liberation comes at a price for all females. The opprobrium of being associated with promiscuity and salaciousness. What is it about 'dick' that consumes my days and nights? Am I looking to be filled up or fulfilled?
I like 'fucks' that have no name.
I find male ejaculation truly sexy. Whether I'm watching a man wank or whether he's about to make my face his canvas. Semen coming my way (pardon the pun) is a beautiful thing. Below I've collated a list of 30 things to say, which should have him unloading his junk in no time.
This blog contains images that are NSFW Whore (as defined in the Oxford Dictionary). 2). A woman who has many sexual encounters 3). A person who is regarded as willing to do anything to get a particular thing Many women have an issue with the term 'whore' for obvious reasons.
Always behind me...
(Please note: I do not condone or promote unsafe sex practices. Each individual is responsible for looking after their sexual health within the context of their circumstance). Those offended by satire are advised not to read this article. If giving a blowjob is a chore to you, I'm here to tell you that you're doing it wrong.
I'm a mistress, and rather than condemn me, you might want to thank me for saving your marriage. According to Sexual Health Australia, 70 per cent of all marriages experience an affair. Most estimates indicate that 45 per cent of women and 60 per cent of men are willing to report that an affair has happened sometime throughout their marriage.
Cybersex can include porn, webcam, skype-sex, virtual adult games, Internet chat rooms, sexual instant messaging, sexting and the use of virtual reality equipment to have a good ol' shag. Many prudes, PC-police and spoilers-of-fun are against cybersex - they believe it destroys intimacy, inspires adultery and is addictive and dangerous.
My vagina runs my life. Men may think with their dicks but admittedly I think with my vagina. My vagina leads me around by the tip of my clitoris. I'm always thinking about sex and when I'm not, I'm sleeping. I've been labeled many things, sex-doll, promiscuous, slut, nympho and sex-addict -- none of which apply to me.
Since the release of the Fifty Shades of Grey series, the masses have begun to seek kinky lifestyles. Though mocked by the broader BDSM community, Fifty Shades is responsible for making erotic spanking mainstream in our current era. So, let's delve further into some spankety-spank - here's some handy stuff I've learnt on my journey through spanking...
This article is part of a series by Australian sex-columnist Vanessa de Largie. You can find Vanessa's library of sex-columns on her Huffington Post Profile or LIKE her Facebook Page. I have a fetish for hard dicks. So it's always a pleasure to receive one in my vagina, mouth or back door.
Let me tell you some little secrets about men.... Vanessa de Largie
On April 28th, I performed my one-woman-show about my journey through rape to an audience at The Tristan Bates Theatre in the West End. As an actor, it has always been my dream to perform on London's West End. And last week that dream manifested with the assistance of a tutor from The Actors Centre.
57% of women fantasize about forceful sex, according to a study by The University of Northern Texas. But 'rough sex' gets a bad name. It's all about consent. It's all about the 'yes' word. Except for the fact, that OFTEN it isn't! The other night, I said 'no' to a man when I truly meant 'YES'.
For every column and feature article I've sold to major publications about sex - there's been nine that have been rejected. The almighty media presents a narrative that protects marriage, promotes vanilla conventionalism and safely houses secret men's business.
I was 11 when I was first called a slut. I hadn't bled yet nor had I kissed a boy. People thought I was 'putting out' when I didn't even know what 'putting out' meant. I was 11 for fuck's sake -- I was still collecting stamps.
Her other columns about fellatio include: The Blowjob Artist The Huffington Post The Double Blowjob The Huffington Post The Hum-Balls Harlot The Huffington Post You can view her full archive of sex columns here If the deepthroat blowjob is the 'Gold Package' then the python blowjob is the 'Platinum'.
I've felt sexual for as long as I can remember. I was fantasizing about groups of men touching me long before I started masturbating. I could feel their hands on my breasts, in my mouth and on the outside of my pussy. I didn't touch myself but I moistened from these thoughts.
I'm yet to come across any man who doesn't appreciate a video of a woman masturbating and coming. Not only is it fun to send to him. It's fun to film. Get creative! I use the film-camera on my phone. It does the job. (cough). 1. Film yourself masturbating.
Prudish women are the chief oppressors.
Real Men Eat Vagina
Read the article that was too filthy for Penthouse Magazine!
Miss de Largie urges men to knock HARD on all her doors.
Putting the Meow into Mistress
Secrets to being a deepthroat diva
Vanessa de Largie - aged 36. (2013) photo toured in an art exhibit. Photographer: Andrew Chisolm. Why does a woman have to defend her right to be a I don't see men having to defend Women spend much of their time degrading other women for You want me to hide what is between my legs?
Because the most erotic connections in life are forbidden
Gangbang porn makes me cum - Vanessa de Largie
Erect Penises Are Beautiful.
Group sex is a great sport but is it worth the drama?
Vanessa de Largie explores facials - the 'dirty' kind
Vanessa de Largie prefers sucking to fucking.
A bloody crime
How To Slay His Dick On the Road
Twenty years between drinks
Vanessa confesses to her love of pre cum
As the world becomes more politically correct. I become more sexually filthy
(Please note: I do not condone or promote unsafe sex practices. Each individual is responsible for looking after their sexual health within the context of their circumstance). Those offended by satire are advised not to read this article. *** If giving a blowjob is a chore to you, I'm here to tell you that you're doing it wrong.
This article is part of a series published on The Huff Post & The Victress by Australian sex-columnist Vanessa de Largie. I hope you enjoy The Handjob Hussy. There are no articles about handjobs on the internet. So I thought it was time that a woman wrote one.
I love to be fucked wearing stockings
Vanessa de Largie: Please stop shutting me down!
This article is a sequel to The Blowjob Artist and The Squirting Princess also published on The Huffington Post. My name is 'Miss Hum-Balls-Harlot' but you can call me Hum for short. How did I get my name? Well, I'll tell you darlings -- I earnt it. I hummed my way to hum-balls-harlotdom.
The explosive #MeToo Movement has changed the way men and women interact forever. As sexual assault and sexual harassment allegations continue to snowball across the globe, men and women find themselves traipsing new terrain. In 2018, how do men go about making the first move in a way which is self-assured yet mindful of a woman's boundaries?
Yes. Yes. YES. Oh, Lordy. Yesss! Have you heard the news? Priceline Pharmacy now sells a range of vibrators called Smile Makers which are being advertised as "personal massagers". Finally, Australian women can purchase sex toys along with their toiletries without having to skulk through seedy adult shops.
If you're opposed to satire. Please leave. *** When I grow up, I want to be a squirting princess. I want to holler during every orgasm as I spray my lady-juice all over the world. I want to ejaculate repeatedly, only resting to adjust my tiara.
Nothing soaks my panties more than a good spanking. Well that's half-true, except I don't wear panties. But if I did wear panties, I'm sure they would be soaked right through. I've been a no-knickers girl for 20 years, but this blog post isn't about my underwear status; it's about spanking.
This article is part of a blog-series on The Huffington Post by sex-columnist Vanessa de Largie. Check out Vanessa's other sex-columns here! I have a confession to make ― my spreader bar is one of my favorite possessions. It's accompanied me through life since 2009.
In 2014, a study published in The Lancet Medical Journal found that sexual assault against Australian women by someone who wasn't their partner was more than double the global average. Studies like this can seem meaningless until they affect us personally.
Every month for over a decade, I've been having my va-va massacred by sadists in a bid to stay relevant in our bald-vagina-times. The Brazilian Wax is a fad that was popularized by the porn industry. It's painful, it's expensive and it makes my lady-bits look like a prepubescent girl.
It was no surprise to me when I typed into Google: " Reasons Why You're Not Getting Any Pussy. " And it brought up a bunch of articles written by men. Here's the real reasons on why you're not getting any pussy. You're An Energy Vampire You're a man that gives her no time to miss you.
Information about sex-work is everywhere. There's memoirs by high-class escorts and personal blogs by wealthy strippers. There's articles on how to be a webcam girl or a porn-star. And there's agencies one can join to be a topless waitress or a jelly wrestler.
This pisstake proudly brought to you by the imagination of moi.*** Once upon a time, long long ago -- there lived a girl called Valessia. (also known as Little Red). Valessia had long black hair, alabaster skin and lips as red as blood. As Valessia set out on the path to Grand-Mama's house.
Ken MacKenzie and his stall at Sexpo Australian writer, Ken MacKenzie is the author of five crime-fiction paperbacks -- with a sixth release launching soon. His crime books regularly have an erotic element to them. Publicity about MacKenzie's work has appeared in People Magazine and at SEXPO.
I'm interested in the correlation between sexual energy and creativity. Whenever I start a new creative project, my body prepares like it would for sexual intercourse. My vagina juices up, my nipples harden and I'm filled with excitement and fear. I have the same reaction when I receive a penis.
I'm a screamer.
If you're a man who's had sex with at least 10 women, chances are one of them has faked an orgasm with you. But how do you know when she's faking it? Here are some sure-fire signs to indicate she's a faker...
I touch myself. I'm an avid supporter of masturbation and self-love. I believe in order to have a healthy sexual relationship with others, one needs to know themselves intimately. My body is a roadmap -- one that I travel often. I know my own pleasure.
When I'm not doing the above. I'm collecting vintage erotica or downloading pornography. Sex is such a large part of my identity ― I'm unable to tell you who I am without it. Fortunately, I've turned my 'love of sex' into a living.
It's 2016 and the world is becoming more politically correct. You can't take a breath without being accused of being sexist, racist, misogynist, ageist, royalist, fascist or chauvinist. The world takes itself seriously and whatever you do, you'll manage to offend someone. I've learnt to live with this reality.
Many would feel shame identifying with the traits of a whore but I feel incredibly proud. I'm whorish down to my bones and I've felt this since I was a young teenage girl. It's not just a physicality ― it's a consistent mental, spiritual and emotional state.
I am a survivor of domestic violence and rape. I am a professional actress. I am a multi-published author. I am a blogger for The Huffington Post. I am a sexual being. As you can see from the list above, I wear many hats. I am all of those things and more.
The sun, sand and sea has us all feeling more amorous, and in the mood for lust, but as the temperature rises how does one keep the sizzling sex hot but the body cool? Here are some sultry suggestions that will help you to achieve both...
I'm a woman that loves to fuck. And I make zero apologies. I'm keen to fuck anywhere, any place, and anytime. Just say the word! In my world, there is nothing better than having a dick deep inside of me. It makes me feel safe. It makes me feel free.
I believe 'empowerment' can only be self-determined. What I find empowering, you may not. And vice-versa. There seems to be much debate online on whether nudity, porn and promiscuity is empowering or degrading to women. Again, I believe only the individual can be the judge of that.
Vanessa de Largie explores the joys of digital pleasure.
Vaginas depicted in the art world don't fare any better. What's worse is that much of the disapproval comes from women. Go to any comments section, on any article covering vaginal art, and you'll find a stream of women making statements such as "That's disgusting!"
I am a fierce advocate of sexual pleasure. I have literally sabotaged career opportunities in 'the mainstream' to live my truth and express myself honestly. To me, that is far more important, than societal validation. I live an HONEST life. Whether the prudes agree, (or not).
I give a lot of fucks...
People throw up sex addiction when I've tried to discuss my sexual peak with them. Apparently, if a woman wants an abundance of sex, then she must have a psychological condition -- she couldn't possibly just want to get laid.
Angry sex is often referred to as 'make-up sex.' It's lustful, it's primal, and it's forceful. It usually takes place after a heated argument or a tiff. It's when anger is siphoned through a good, hard fuck.In a climate of...
The idea of a "sexual peak" has been the object of a bit of debate over the years with new studies proving or disproving its existence. But, regardless of these numerous studies and expert opinions, only I know what is...
A recent study published by the British Journal of Sociology revealed that one out of three women who work as strippers are full-time students who use the cash to support themselves. The same study also revealed that women who strip are most likely to come from middleclass families - certainly not the 'stereotypcial stripper' that the media likes to portray in news narratives.
These five awesome lesbian sex positions are designed for both partners' pleasure. Enjoy!
When most of us think about sex, we think about bodily pleasures -- the lead-up, the climax and the quiet after the storm. Admittedly, the health benefits of sex never enters our mind. Sex is a high-priestess with many powers. She has the power to heal, the power to eradicate pain and the power to pacify.
It explored anal sex, sex-workers, blowjobs and erotic massage. The blog launched 3 weeks ago and men are still writing me emails from around the world to say 'thank you'. From the amount of messages I've received, the blog must have hit a nerve or hardened a cock -- or something.
I crave semen
I love being filled up with semen -- Vanessa de Largie
When my hand is between my thighs
Why not give her a ginger finger for Valentines Day.
Bang. Bang. Bang.
A blog from a fellatio enthusiast
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Vanessa de Largie explores orifices and filling up
"Vanessa de Largie's wonderful fierce and tender sexuality reminds me of Anais Nin's: she's a woman who doesn't deny her body and her desires but follows them unafraid and rejoicing. These days this sincerity makes her a truly refreshing voice - and a happy one to find." Critically Acclaimed Author - Kate Holden.
Cocks -- Vanessa de Largie
Why I love a sexually needy man
A Confession -- Vanessa de Largie