I was 14 when I first got fingered.
I can still remember the anticipation as his hand moved through my layers of clothing -- leisurely getting to my panties and pulling the silk across for access.
It was the best thing I'd felt in my life. My entire pleasure reliant on what he did with his digits. He stayed teasingly on the outside of my lips until I begged him to insert a finger.
The game continued.
He would go-to-town on my cunt with one finger until I begged him to insert another. I would writhe and buck until the contractions came. Finally -- contented emptiness.
He would pull his hand away, his digits shiny with my wetness. My relieved-self, hungry for our next session.
In our current climate, where porn is as accessible as candy. It seems we may have lost our thirst for simple pleasures. It's all about extremes like anal-sex and money-shots -- both are fun, I admit!
But let's not underestimate a good ole finger-fucking.
Finger-fucking is also about location:
Under the table at dinner in a packed restaurant.
On the back of a bus. (not that I'd know anything about that....)
While he's speaking to his girlfriend on the phone, (ride that digit) Just kidding.... or am I?
While your best girlfriend sits on his face
This is the stuff I live for -- PLEASURE!
Just fuck me with your fingers!!!!
I have a doctorate in self-love. :-) I know what my cunt needs. Masturbation is an art-form. I talk about this in my Huff Post article I Touch Myself and I intend to write about the subject more in future blog-posts.
It's a way to move forward for women -- spiritually and artistically. One rises through their sexual energy. (I believe this in my heart-of-hearts) Our sexual energy is the CORE of everything. EVERYTHING!
There is also a chapter dedicated to self-love in my erotic memoir Tantric Afternoons. If you know your own cunt -- you will be a better lover. It's a fact! How can you possibly tell someone else how to finger-fuck you, if you've never finger-fucked yourself?
One finger, two fingers, three fingers - FOUR.
PLEASE SIR PLEASE... may I have some more?